Smile! 🙂 You are entering a cancer zone 🙂
If you know a person in your life who has cancer, you probably say:
“gosh I should visit him or her,
but I do feel so uncomfortable about cancer…
what am I going to say anyway?
Better I don’t go…”
So here I am: having cancer and no visitors… How to enjoy life in bed on your own? Pretty difficult… Yet all I need are:
- a few good 🙂 🙂 🙂 to forget what’s happening for a second
- another 🙂 🙂 🙂 for the next second.
If I want to be serious, I just have to think about my cancer, no need to hear from others: “how is your cancer?” As my bastard of a cancer is growing like a mushroom… No, cancer is no fun, Iraq is no fun, Saddam Hussein is no fun, nor is the war on terror, and I don’t know what is worse: the Iraq study group or cancer? But no need to remind me of all these: especially not by coming in with a gray pale face as if you saw a death man or as if you are the one recently diagnosed with an incurable cancer.
How to visit a cancer patient 🙂
Remember yourself before you heard about the cancer of your friend and loved one.
Remember your friend or loved one before he/she got cancer.
You are both the same persons now,
so visit each other
the way you used to do
with the words, presents … you used to share.
I love to crack jokes but my daily cancer care takers: my wife and son know my jokes all already. But whoever I haven’t seen for a long time I love to crack a joke and get a joke on me.
And if you are not funny, then just look for the things that could put a smile on the face of your cancer friend or cancer beloved one. Like my youngest when they drop by: they brought me my favorite greasy pastry… not the first thing you think is right for a person like me with a liver problem. Yet that brought a big smile on my face and some extra appetite as well!
Bless those who have the courage to visit a cancer patient and try to put a smile on their faces. Don’t be a clown though:
the smile will come if what you do is
what you and your loved one loved to do together
before one got a cancer
🙂
Remember that a cancer patient is angry that he has cancer, see my angry reaction on the 5FU chemotherapy in the previous post.
🙂 🙂 Yet the best medicine to relief this “cancer”-anger is a smile 🙂 🙂
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